Thursday, October 9, 2008

Off Topic but Important - Proposition 8 in California

I've never posted an off topic post before but this one was so important to me that I have to post about it. I haven't seen a place where all the facts and sources about proposition 8 is posted and so I'm going to try to make one here and edit it whenever I come across more facts and sources.
For those that don't know, proposition 8 in California changes the constitution to include the following phrase:

"Only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California"

At first blush this may seem intolerant because it excludes same sex marriage and shouldn't they have the same rights as everyone else? I'll explain my reasoning below.

From the prop 8 analysis in the California voter information guide: "In March 2000, California voters passed Proposition 22 to specify in state law that only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California. In May 2008, the California Supreme Court ruled that the statute enacted by Proposition 22 and other statutes that limit marriage to a relationship between a man and a woman violated the equal protection clause of the California Constitution. It also held that individuals of the same sex have the right to marry under the California Constitution. As a result of the ruling, marriage between individuals of the same sex is currently valid or recognized in the state." I believe that this decision is more about activist judges and legislating from the bench than actual constitutionality. I'll talk more about that later but I think it is morally wrong to go against items that have been voted on by the California people unless there is a very good reason. I view this type of circumvention of the voice of the people as underhanded and cowardly. Even for principle alone, I think that if people want to change the law to include same sex marriage, they should go to the legislature or to a popular vote. It's incredible to me that we have to vote for the same thing again, we should be voting whether or not to adopt same sex marriage, not whether to re-affirm what we already voted on in 2000.

Here is why I believe this is a case of activist legislation from the bench rather than a valid constitutionality question. Footnote 52 on page 79 of the opinion from the supreme court of California where Proposition 22 is overturned, it reads:

We emphasize that our conclusion that the constitutional right to marry properly must be interpreted to apply to gay individuals and gay couples does not mean that this constitutional right similarly must be understood to extend to polygamous or incestuous relationships. Past judicial decisions explain why our nation’s culture has considered the latter types of relationships inimical to the mutually supportive and healthy family relationships promoted by the constitutional right to marry…. Although the historic disparagement of and discrimination against gay individuals and gay couples clearly is no longer constitutionally permissible, the state continues to have a strong and adequate justification for refusing to officially sanction polygamous or incestuous relationships because of their potentially detrimental effect on a sound family environment…. Thus our conclusion that it is improper to interpret the state constitutional right to marry as inapplicable to gay individuals or couples does not affect the constitutional validity of the existing legal prohibitions against polygamy and the marriage of close relatives.

What follows is data to support the argument that I have that same sex relationships are also "inimical to the mutually supportive and healthy family relationships promoted by the constitutional right to marry."

1) Research shows that contributions from both a mother and a father are significant in the development of children:

"Although it would seem that two-parent families should be able to provide more resources for children, particularly in terms of income and availability of time to spend with children, children from stepparent families often look similar to those from single-parent homes. In comparison to
step-families, cohabiting relationships and foster care appear to be even more deleterious with respect to child outcomes."

Barbara Schneider, Allison Atteberry, and Ann Owens, Family Matters: Family Structure and Child Outcomes (Birmingham AL: Alabama Policy Institute: June 2005)
http://www.alabamapolicy.org/pdf/currentfamilystructure.pdf

"More children each year are not living in families that include their own married, biological parents, which by all available empirical evidence is the gold standard for insuring optimal outcomes in a child’s development."
David Popenoe and Barbara Defoe Whitehead, The State of Our Unions 2007: The Social Health of Marriage in America (Piscataway, NJ (Rutgers University) The National Marriage Project, July 2007 pp. 21-25
http://marriage.rutgers.edu/Publications/SOOU/SOOU2007.pdf

"Are children more likely to flourish when they are raised by their own married mothers and fathers, or are alternative family forms just as good?"
Maggie Gallagher and Joshua K. Baker, “Do Moms and Dads Matter? Evidence from the Social Sciences on Family Structure and the Best Interests of the Child,” Margins Law Journal 4:161 (2004).
http://www.marriagedebate.com/pdf/Do_Moms_Dads_Matter.pdf

The consequences to a child of fatherlessness:


David Blankenhorn, Fatherless America: Confronting Our Most Urgent Social Problem (New York: Basic Books, 1995)
http://www.amazon.com/Fatherless-America-Confronting-Urgent-Problem/dp/006092683X/
This page has the author's notes on his book:
http://www.americanvalues.org/html/bk-fatherless_america.html

"The decline of fatherhood is a major force behind many of the most disturbing problems that plague American society: crime; premature sexuality and out-of-wedlock births to teenagers; deteriorating educational achievement; depression, substance abuse and alienation among adolescents; and the growing number of women and children in poverty."
David Popenoe, Life Without Father (New York: Martin Kessler Books, 1996)
http://www.amazon.com/Life-without-Father-Compelling-Indispensable/dp/0674532600

2) Extending marriage to include same sex relationships will divorce the two concepts of marriage and family and weaken marriage.

An article by Stanley Kurtz analyzes the consequences of the legalization of same sex marriage in the Netherlands.
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/1140886/posts

Another article by Stanley Kurtz is much more detailed in answering the question of the consequences of extending marriage.
"The separation of marriage from parenthood was increasing; gay marriage has widened the separation. Out-of-wedlock birthrates were rising; gay marriage has added to the factors pushing those rates higher. Instead of encouraging a society-wide return to marriage, Scandinavian gay marriage has driven home the message that marriage itself is outdated, and that virtually any family form, including out-of-wedlock parenthood, is acceptable."
http://www.weeklystandard.com/Content/Public/Articles/000/000/003/660zypwj.asp

"What's the Harm? is a valuable resource of diverse insights, arguments, and information that contributes to a deeper understanding of what may be the defining issue of the first decade of the twenty-first century."
Lynne D. Wardle, "What's the Harm?: Does Legalizing Same-Sex Marriage Really Harm Individuals, Families or Society?" University Press of America (2008)
http://www.amazon.com/Whats-Harm-Legalizing-Same-Sex-Individuals/dp/0761843167

I find that I agree with Stanley Kurtz and find his writing quite well formed:
"Does gay marriage undermine heterosexual marriage?"
http://www.nationalreview.com/kurtz/kurtz043003.asp

3) Same sex relationships are shorter term than traditional marriages between a man and a wife.

In Dutch AIDs researchers, published in 2003 in the journal AIDS, reported on the number of partners among Amsterdam’s homosexual population.

http://www.aidsonline.com/pt/re/aids/pdfhandler.00002030-200305020-00012.pdf

They found that the average duration of committed relationships among gay steady partners was 1.5 years. One and a half years does not sound to me like a "mutually supportive and healthy family relationship."

Divorce magazine says the average length of marriage in the US is about 8 years.
http://www.divorcemag.com/statistics/statsUS.shtml

Data from the Gay/Lesbian Consumer Online Census shows that only 29% of relationships last more than 7 years.
http://glcensus.org/press/02052004.html

The American College of Pediatricians say that "homosexual partnerships are significantly more prone to dissolution than heterosexual marriages with the average homosexual relationship lasting only two to three years."
http://www.acpeds.org/?CONTEXT=art&cat=22&art=50

The Family Research Center has a compilation of some good data. I need to look more at this one, it is data for the United States.
http://www.frc.org/get.cfm?i=IS04C02

4) Same sex relationships are much more prone to domestic violence:

According to Statistics Canada, Canada's National Statistical Agency, July 7, 2005, "Violence was twice as common among homosexual couples compared with heterosexual couples."
http://www.statcan.ca/english/research/85-570-XIE/85-570-XIE2006001.pdf

The American College of Pediatricians indicate that the number should be 2-3 times rather than the Canadian 2 times.
http://www.acpeds.org/?CONTEXT=art&cat=22&art=50

5) Same sex relationships are more likely to prematurely end in death of one or both partners due to the very high rate of diseases such as AIDS.

Finally, from he most recent AIDS survey is published by WHO and UN AIDS, unprotected sex between men continues to account for the largest proportion of new HIV infections (45% in 2005 (that's 45% of 2.1 million which is 0.945 million new gay men with new infections in 2005) compared with 42% in 2002) (Boulos et al., 2006). An estimated 37% of new HIV infections in 2005 were attributed to unprotected heterosexual intercourse, with a substantial proportion among people born in countries where HIV is endemic
(mainly sub-Saharan Africa and the Caribbean).

Since the best estimates put the homosexual population between 2% and 7%, this also means that even in western Europe with a minority of 29% of new infections coming from at best 7% of the population means that the gay men are far and away the most risky group. In the rest of the world (population about 6.45 billion in 2005) where that 2-7% (451 million in 2005) represents the majority means the chance of infection when engaging in completely random homosexual sex is 0.21% for the gay population as opposed to 0.013% for completely random heterosexual sex (200 times more likely).
http://www.unaids.org/en/KnowledgeCentre/HIVData/EpiUpdate/EpiUpdArchive/2007/default.asp

6) By classifying same sex marriage as a discrimination attribute, my personal rights of freedom of speech and expression are limited.

Hate speech is a type of caveat to the first amendment to the constitution which guarantees free speech. In general, people may speak and write of anything that they wish, however there are some special cases when there is nothing to be gained by speaking of an issue. An example of this is advocating racism - people can not change the color of their skin and there is no hard facts that indicate that any given genealogy is "better" than any other and so racism has been classified as hate speech - promote it and you are subject to imprisonment and fines. Other examples of discrimination points include gender, and age. These are things that can not be changed, they aren't a CHOICE. By granting same sex marriage discrimination status, disagreements can not be put forward. In this case since it is a religious belief of many (including myself), it directly conflicts with another cherished item: the separation of church and state (more about that later.)

There is quite a bit of controversy about whether or not homosexuality is part of genetics or a choice. According to JM Bailey, "Environmental influences play a significant role in the development of gender identity and sexual behavior." (Bailey JM. "Biological perspectives on sexual orientation". In: Garnets LD and Kimmel DC: Psychological perspectives on lesbian, gay, and bisexual experiences. Columbia University Press, New York. 2003)
http://www.amazon.com/Psychological-Perspectives-Lesbian-Bisexual-Experiences/dp/0231124139/

In regards to hate speech I offer the following link where government employees were prevented from using terms such as "Marriage" and "Family Values" because they were viewed as hate speech. We should be aware of what is happening to the virtues of free speech in our society.
http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2007/mar/07030805.html

Another example is the case where the Good News Employees Association prevented Joanna Hicks from refuting previous comments concerning the Bible such as "I personally think the good book needs some updating."
http://www.davidlimbaugh.com/mt/archives/2007/06/new_column_anot.html
http://www.ca9.uscourts.gov/coa/memdispo.nsf/pdfview/030507/$File/05-15467.PDF
http://www.oaklandcityattorney.org/PDFS/Opinions/GoodNewsruling2-2005.pdf

Jeff Jacoby has a very good article about why gay marriage is not a civil right and why it's different from the civil rights movement.
http://www.jewishworldreview.com/jeff/jacoby_gay_marriage.php3


7) It violates the separation between church and state
:

In 1819, James Madison, the principal author of the US constitution stated:

"The civil Government, though bereft of everything like an associated hierarchy, possesses the requisite stability, and performs its functions with complete success, whilst the number, the industry, and the morality of the priesthood, and the devotion of the people, have been manifestly increased by the total separation of the church from the State."

In 1773, the Rev. Isaac Backus, the most prominent Baptist minister in New England, observed that when "church and state are separate, the effects are happy, and they do not at all interfere with each other: but where they have been confounded together, no tongue nor pen can fully describe the mischiefs that have ensued."

As described in point 3, free speech is endangered by the inclusion of same sex marriage as a discrimination item. Advocates of same-sex marriage are suggesting that tax exemptions and benefits be withdrawn from any religious organization that does not embrace same-sex unions. Jonathan Turley, “An Unholy Union: Same-Sex Marriage and the Use of Governmental Programs to Penalize Religious Groups with Unpopular Practices,” in Douglas Laycock, Jr., et al., eds., Same-Sex Marriage and Religious Liberty: Emerging Conflicts (Lanham, MD: Rowman & Littlefield Publishers, Inc., 2008).
http://www.amazon.com/Same-Sex-Marriage-Religious-Liberty-Conflicts/dp/074256326X

Marc Stern, general counsel for the American Jewish Congress who asks, “Can a group – a church or religious charity – that opposes gay marriage keep its tax exemption if gay marriage becomes law?”
http://www.latimes.com/news/opinion/la-oe-stern17-2008jun17,0,5628051.story

I believe strongly that moral issues should be preached in churches without fear of repercussions either of the preacher being hauled off to jail or fined or by the church being denied tax exemption status. This is one of the most important points to me.

8) Same sex couples gain no rights under California Law by gaining marriage.
The California domestic partnership law already gives same sex couples all the rights they can possibly have as a couple under the name marriage or not. Sacrificing the above rights to grant someone a new title even a very important group is not a good trade off. As I indicated above, I would gladly trade the title of "married" if it meant giving these rights to a group however small.
http://www.leginfo.ca.gov/cgi-bin/displaycode?section=fam&group=00001-01000&file=297-297.5

9) Homosexuals are 10-25 times more likely to be child molestors.

The number of homosexuals in essentially all surveys is less than 3%. (Statistics Canada found only 1% of the population who described themselves as homosexual.) However, the percentage of homosexuals among pedophiles is 25%. (Blanchard R et al. Fraternal birth order and sexual orientation in pedophiles. Archives of Sexual Behavior 2000; 29: 463-78.) Therefore, the prevalence of pedophilia among homosexuals is about 10-25 times higher than one would expect if the proportion of pedophiles were evenly distributed within the (hetero- and homosexual) populations.
http://www.ingentaconnect.com/content/klu/aseb/2000/00000029/00000005/00225154
http://www.springerlink.com/content/hh300395g834h386/

Another more extensive survey was done of lots of other studies. Don't be misled by the typo in the beginning paragraph, it unfortunately claims the opposite of what they are trying to show. I think it was just a mistake in the quote that they make as the rest of the paper makes clear.
http://www.familyresearchinst.org/FRI_EduPamphlet2.html

10) Same sex marriage would be given at least equal footing in teaching children as young as kindergarten.

Given that same sex marriage has been shown to be damaging to children, I believe that teaching same sex marriage in schools is at best foolhardy, at worst a recipe for disaster. Who in their right mind would teach children how to fail at life? School is specifically a place to learn how to succeed. Teaching about alternate lifestyles that do not lead to stable societal goals is counterproductive. Some argue that if you don't like it, you can abstain from those classes but a recent case in Massachusetts shows that this is not a real option. A father is jailed when he refused to leave a school board meeting until he was given the opportunity to exclude his child from schooling including same sex marriage. (It is instructive to note that the book brought home by his child, "Who's in a Family?" has 2 homosexual couples on the front cover but NO traditional families with a husband and a wife.)
http://www.worldnetdaily.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=45594
http://www.amazon.com/Whos-Family-Robert-Skutch/dp/188367266X

The same groups that are funding no on prop 8 in California are trying to prevent parents in Massachusetts from opting out of homosexual indoctrination.
http://www.marketwatch.com/news/story/proposition-8-whos-really-lying/story.aspx?guid={5627F03A-80C6-4259-8A81-E5D73F237D93}&dist=hppr

11) Businesses and churches would be unable to protect themselves:

MY SISTER-IN-LAW is a wedding photographer and after being photographed in her local newspaper while supporting Proposition 8, was barraged by hate mail and asked to photograph several same sex marriages with the threat that if she did not do it, she would be sued for discrimination even though there were other wedding photographers available at lower rates and in closer areas. A case exactly similar to my sister-in-law's took place already.The story starts with the phrase "Act Three: A Nationwide Story."
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=91573905

The social services arm of the Roman Catholic archdiocese has provided adoption services for the state for about two decades, but said it would discontinue because it was forced to provide adoptions to same sex couples against it's religious views.
http://www.boston.com/news/local/massachusetts/articles/2006/03/10/catholic_charities_to_halt_adoptions_over_issue_involving_gays/

Canada February 24, 2000 A professional printer refused to print material for the Canadian Gay and Lesbian Archives because he felt doing so would violate his religious beliefs. He was fined and ordered to print the material anyway. He took his case to the Ontario Supreme Court and then to the Ontario Court of Appeal and lost both times. His total legal bills exceed $170,000.
http://www.catholiceducation.org/articles/persecution/pch0080.html

Canada 2001 An evangelical Christian employed as a prison guard placed an ad in the Saskatchewan Star Phoenix. The ad was a picture of two stick men holding hands, with a red circle with a bar across superimposed on them. Below the picture were four scripture references, but not actual Bible verses. He was convicted of a hate crime by the Saskatchewan Human Rights Tribunal. The judge suggested that using Bible verses in a newspaper ad like this could be construed as hate literature. Thus, there is now legal precedent in Canada that the Holy Bible is hate literature.
http://www.catholiceducation.org/articles/persecution/pch0080.html

Additional resources that I liked but didn't fit anywhere in my particular argument structure:

Stanley Kurtz on how same sex marriage is the gateway to polygamy:
http://www.traditionalvalues.org/modules.php?sid=1505

A story about a Brussels threesome who want to get married.
http://www.brusselsjournal.com/node/585

An article from Robert Knight the person who helped draft the federal law, the Defense of Marriage Act is quite good.
http://www.cwfa.org/familyvoice/2006-05/marriage_may_june.pdf

I found some good information from Conservapedia.com which also contains quite a bit more supporting evidence.
http://www.conservapedia.com/Homosexual_Couples_and_Domestic_Violence

Stanley Kurtz article:
http://www.weeklystandard.com/Content/Public/Articles/000/000/003/660zypwj.asp

A very well thought-out and well written article about same sex marriage. Although it is long, I strongly suggest reading it.
http://www.janegalt.net/blog/archives/005244.html

Finally a very good discussion concerning same sex marriage from Rick Santorum, Senior Fellow for the Pew Ethics and Public Policy Center and former U.S. Senator
http://pewforum.org/events/?EventID=180



I have often heard the term "Equality" used in connection with Proposition 8 and I think there is a problem using that word. I'll explain. Everyone whether gay or straight is equal under the law. They may all get married whether proposition 8 passes or not. The difference is what marriage means. I may have a cat who I love dearly and enjoy being with but I can not get married to that cat, not because I don't have the right to marry but because that relationship is known as "being a pet owner" not getting married. Gay people may get married, everyone can, it's a right that everyone has. Gay people may not, if proposition 8 is passed, call their relationship with someone of the same sex marriage just as I may not call my relationship with my cat marriage because that's not what it is. It's a civil partnership or in my case, a pet owner (by the way, I have no strong feelings for the cats that I own, I just used it as an example).

If proposition 8 is about tolerance, it's about tolerating people who believe differently from the gay and lesbian activist groups. Tolerance in my mind is about allowing others to choose as they will unless it involves negative consequences for oneself and even then annoyances and negative consequences must be examined to weigh the differences between what is gained on the one hand and what is lost on the other. Losing my right to voice my opinion so that someone can gain the label of "marriage" is not reasonable to me. I would gladly give up the right to be labeled married if it would give another group the right to free speech.

Many of the same points are made by Dr. Laura A. Haynes who is a physiologist in Tustin, California. Her paper is also full of plenty of sources.
http://www.journeychristianministries.org/CPA-SSA-marriage.pdf

Conclusion:
Proposition 8 in 14 simple and straight-forward words protects me from all of these negative consequences. I am a strong supporter of proposition 8 because it's the right thing to do. I can't conscience the spilled blood of patriots from the birth of this great nation being spilled in vain, I believe what they fought and died for is still as important today as when they died for it. I believe in the separation of religious and political institutions. I believe in the freedom of speech for all. Without these pillars of our society, we risk disintegration, chaos, and destruction.

26 comments:

A. said...

I really like your post, it's well thought out and documented! Sometimes it can seem like common perception favors the other side.

Personally, I don’t see Proposition 8 taking anything away from civil unions or partner laws. I see Proposition 8 as separate from the gay issue. It’s more about legal protection for those of us who would rather have private matters be private and who wish to preserve our own free speech and freedom of religion rights.

Jacob said...

Your claim that the Universal Declaration of Human Rights somehow supports the idea that same-sex couples are not "mutually supportive and healthy family relationships" is totally without merit.

I presume you are referring to Article 16 thereof, which states in full:

"(1) Men and women of full age, without any limitation due to race, nationality or religion, have the right to marry and to found a family. They are entitled to equal rights as to marriage, during marriage and at its dissolution.
(2) Marriage shall be entered into only with the free and full consent of the intending spouses.
(3) The family is the natural and fundamental group unit of society and is entitled to protection by society and the State."

Nothing in there implies that same-sex couples can't have successful relationships. Nor does it define marriage as a one man, one woman institution or limit it in such a way. Nor does it say that "a family consisting of one man, one woman, and their biological children is the natural and fundamental..." It simply says the family. And there are many types of families, like it or not.

Would you care to explain how you think the UDHR supports the claim that same-sex couples are not "mutually supportive and healthy family relationships"? If not, will you withdraw the comment that it does?

Troy said...

Jacob,
I was worried that you had dissapeared after that post I made to you challenging you to find facts to support your claims at

http://beetlebabee.wordpress.com/wp-admin/post.php?action=edit&post=20

I'm glad to see you looking at the links and reading their content.
The reason the Universal Declaration of Human Rights is in support of traditional marriage is because the declaration was talking about traditional marriage. Same sex marriage is a very new phenomenon with the first recognition by the Netherlands happening in 2001 (over half a century after this document was written.) I don't believe that a document written in 1948 even considers same gender couples. Same sex partnerships were first recognized in 1989 in Denmark, 39 years after this document was written.
I understand that the English here is a little ambiguous and that it can be interpreted both ways. However, because the second sentence continues to use the compound subject of the first, I think it is clear that the first sentence refers to men and women being married to one another. I believe the second sentence is saying that both the man and the woman are entitled to equal rights before, during, and after the marriage and that one does not have superiority over the other. I understand that it may be interpreted differently but I don't really think putting 2008 glasses on to view the sentence is fair. Although the document is exhaustive in it's treatment, it does not include same sex partnerships or address same gender attraction in any way as part of human rights.

abbyearth said...

POWERFUL Yes! on Prop. 8 blog.
I wish everyone in California and our nation could read your blog entry. WOW.

I'm proud to stand with you & vote YES! Prop. 8.

Thank you.

www.ifprop8fails.org
www.preservingmarriage.com
www.protectmarriage.com

bethanyr32 said...

Very well written, Troy. You make powerful arguments to support Prop 8. I think our founding fathers would be disturbed by the way our society is willing to sacrifice its religious freedom and freedom of speech to satisfy a vocal minority, considering that those principles were very important in the founding of our country.

CaliforniaCrusader said...

Troy,
I got the link to your site from fellow Prop 8 bloggers. I really appreciate how you consolidated all the evidence for traditional marrige into one place.

THANKS!

beetlebabee said...

This is the most comprehensive list of facts and sources I've seen, and I've been in the thick of this issue for quite a while. Thanks Troy for your extensive information.

I was commenting on some of the forums and realized that by and large, the majority of the gay marriage proponents have nothing but names, slurs, ridicule and intimidation to sling. Those are poor excuses for arguments. Now I see why they do that. There aren't any studies on their side. They have no facts to base their arguments on.

Powerful.

I'm going to use you as the reference guru at beetle blogger if you don't mind. Thanks for all the effort.

Katie said...

Wow....how long did it take you to write that? Thank you! I'm putting your post as a link on my blog.

I liked your answer to Jacob also. We cannot use our 2008 glasses to interpret the meaning of something written long ago....we must look at it with their thinking. Well said.

www.ifprop8fails.org
www.preservingmarriage.com
www.protectmarriage.com

abby said...

Thank you for your great post! If you know to stop at a red light, you’d agree it’s unreasonable to say to your child would you like an apple or an apple when you’re holding up 1 apple and 1 banana!!

For a changing society, we need NEW TERMS to describe the types of relationships people have the free choice to form – not new laws that will put us all in speech & religious bondage.

Vote not with emotion but with reason; get the facts: www.ifprop8fails.org, www.protectmarriage.com, and www.preservingmarriage.org. Let's you , me, and our same-sex friends unite to vote Yes! on Prop. 8.
http://abbyearth.wordpress.com

Karen Ahlstrom said...

Great post with exhaustive references. Thanks!

Here's my attempt at something more emotional, but still addressing the asme main points.

http://karenspoetryspot.blogspot.com/2008/10/it-aint-necessarily-so-by-george-and.html

Left Coaster said...

Good post, Keep blogging. We are sprinting towards Nov 4. Vote yes on Prop 8!

The Skinny on Schools and Prop 8.

1 - Public schools in California are not required to teach anything about marriage.

2 - 96 percent of California public schools teach a Health and Sex Ed Curriculum, which is my understanding is required under law (but I cannot find that online yet from the State, I am still looking).

3 - If a public school teaches Health and Sex Ed, they are required to teach the following :

“Instruction shall be appropriate for students of all genders, sexual orientations, and ethnic and cultural backgrounds…Instruction shall encourage communication between students and their families and shall teach respect for marriage and committed relationships.


4 - This means that schools that teach Heath and Sex Ed will now be required to teach that Gay Marriage is the same as Marriage between a Man and a Woman.


http://standingfortruth2008.wordpress.com/2008/10/25/prop-8-and-schools/

abby said...

How & Why Did France DENY Same Sex Couples Marriage?
France Says Marriage Is Strictly Reserved For Heterosexual Couples!

Why? The Answer Will Probably Surprise You!

Please Read It & Place Your Vote With A Clear Conscious For YES! On Prop. 8… http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2006_docs/Francesummary.pdf

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Thanks again for your awesome postings on prop. 8!

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sweat, tears, or the sea: prop 8 edition said...

as i've studied this issue, i've realized that the state really does have a responsibility to protect its children.

France took a year studying the issue BEFORE they decided. They rejected same-sex marriage because of the rights of children.

Every child has a right to a mom and a dad. This is how they grow and learn best. While homosexual parents might be really good people, they can't equal a mom AND a dad.

society has an obligation to provide this basic and natural/biological right to its children.

there is a cool discussion going on here:

http://prop8discussion.wordpress.com/2008/10/29/children-matter-society-has-a-moral-obligation-to-protect-them-children-have-a-right-to-a-mom-and-a-dad-day-3/

and here:

http://prop8discussion.wordpress.com/category/legislation-and-social-issues/

Pomoprophet said...

For someone who is a "scientist" you sure post lots of information without explaining the inherant biases and why many of those numbers and ideas you floated really have no scientific standing when help up to scruitiny.

But thanks for hiding your bias in lots of words so that those who are less studied may believe you and be swayed by half-truths.

My name is Gayle said...

To Pomoprophet

You cast aspersions on the author and his readers without presenting facts and sources to back up your own claims. Why should I consider your opinion worthy of consideration?

Respectfully,

G. Geer

Rudy said...

Lesbian relationships on average last longer than heterosexual relationships.

The studies that claim that children are better off with their "biological father and mother" would seem to tell as well against straight adoption as much as gay adoption.

Gay marriage (called just "marriage") occurs in lots of churches, including UU,
liberal Friends (Quaker) meetings, and others. Your argument that "gay people can't call their relationship marriage" seems as much an infringement on the religious and free speech rights of these churches as the nondiscrimination and hate speech cases you cite.

The structure of your argument seems to undermine itself when applied to everyone, not just gay people.

Troy said...

Rudy,
Thanks for your opinion. Without links to the studies it's no more than an opinion I'm afraid. I look forward to hearing from you again if you have data to present.

Rudy said...

Hi Troy,

I guess the data you're asking for is about the comparison between lesbian and heterosexual relationships. I can see you might need convincing about this if you don't know many lesbians closely; or if you think that the common impression people have about this is wrong. I'll follow the links on your page as a start to see if it breaks this data out separately.

You are taking a dismissive tone to the rest of my post for some reason that I can't see. Only my first paragraph addressed an issue that requires data. The other two paragraphs address fallacies in your argument. Maybe I was too vague about this?

It's a fact, and I'm sure you don't need a citation or a study, I'm sure you know this- that there are churches that perform gay marriages (mine is one of them, in theory, though we haven't actually had anybody ask for one yet.) My state (not California) does not recognize this as a "real" marriage. Even if you think that there
are good reasons to forbid gay marriages, that outweigh our religious freedom, it is still being infringed, and I can't see why we are not important but the "don't want to hire gays" churches are.

Many of the arguments you make have a "special pleading" quality, and that is what I really wanted to draw your attention to.

The most dramatic instance in your post, and maybe the one I should have focused on, is that paragraph about pedophiles. Whatever the case with the relative number of homosexual vs. heterosexual pedophiles, nearly all of them are male; but you don't use the same argument against allowing males to marry.

In fact *nearly* all your arguments fall apart when applied solely to lesbians. Would you be willing to let lesbians get married? (all two of the admittedly small sample of lesbian households with children I know, make an effort to include male friends into their children's lives, by the way; that's the one issue
where your post treats gay men and lesbians evenhandedly.)

Troy said...

Rudy,
First I want to appolojize if I had a dismissive tone on my blog. I have spoken with quite a few people and many of them are not interested in looking into the facts of the matter. Since you didn't post any, I wrongly automatically assumed you were one of these "trolls." I am sorry, that's not the way that I wish to come off.

Studies that I cite and others that examine the effect of "transplants" from one home to another on children unanimously agree that adoption presents a risk to children and that the best possible course of action is to stay with a biological mother and father if possible. If not possible, the next best choice is adoption into a family with a mother and father. As an adoptive parent (I adopted 3 boys who are brothers), I'm acutely aware of this fact and have worked hard to try to "beat the odds." Since the oldest is nearly 12, I don't know how I've done yet. There are obviously more studies that need to be done concerning the effect on children of other familal permutations including families with two mothers. I have seen data supporting both that it's equal to and that it's inferior to families with both a mother and a father. Until data is available to show unequivocally that it's at least as good, I don't feel it's right to teach that it is.

In regards to what same sex couples call thier relationship, I have no problem with them calling it anything that they like including marriage. The law in California and other places attaches meaning to the word marriage and relationships with that legal definition are "regulated" in schools. For instance, when marriage is discussed, all kinds/flavors of marriage must be taught equally. Currently this means interratial marriages, inter-cultural marriages, and marriages from within the same culture and race of a man and a woman. If same sex unions are given the legal title of marriage, they must be taught as equal in the classroom which I believe is wrong for the reasons listed on my site. I think that same sex couples should have the same rights and responsibilities with respect to their relationships as married couples but since they are different and since the legal baggage that comes along with marriage is so significant, I believe they should have a different legal name.

I hope that makes my point of view more clear. I look forward to hearing from you further if you wish.

thepomegranateapple said...

troy, i just found this post, thank you so much. even after the election it is useful. the election was such a pressure cooker. i think as time goes on and as people have more time to discuss, they will see the problematic consequences of extending the definition.

herrad said...

Hi Troy,

I0t's a hell of a post will have to sop by again to reads it again.
Keep warm and happy.
Love,
Herrad
ps my partner/carers blog is
http://screamingrichie.blogspot.com/

Herrad said...

Hello Troy,
Came back to try to read your long post.

Shame you could not give the salient points.

I think it domes down to do you want to live in a dynamic country/community.

A dynamic country can only be achieved by diversity.

I, for one want to live in a community that is diverse and can adapt to the needs of the population.

Adiversity of people and ideas is what makes our world go round.

Let's enjoy it.

Love,
Herrad

Troy said...

Herrad,
Thanks for coming back and reading the post. I'm not clear about how proposition 8 either discourages or encourages diversity or which salient points you feel I missed. Prop 8 simply defines marriage. No one loses rights and diversity actually promoted as a result of the definition redeclaration. Without it, the distinction between same sex coupling and marriage would be dissolved in the law (less diversity). This would have some pretty severe consequences including, for instance, forcing same sex couples to be taught as equal to marriage in schools. As a society, we have a responsibility to protect our children. They are for the most part helpless without our protection. By maintaining the distinction between same sex couples and marriage, we can promote the "Gold Standard" of children and families as marriage. Research shows again and again that deviations from the gold standard result in inferior chances for our children. Society should promote the gold standard and tolerate deviations from the gold standard with the recognition that they are unfortunately less in some way.

Richie said...

Hi Troy- I aint got much to say on this topic- as an atheist I do not have enough common ground to argue the point with you- you believe the Bible was written by God and I think it was the product of humanity.
Science is really obscuration in the argument.
As a product of a highly dysfunctional heterosexual couple I think being raised (like an acquaintance of mine) by two kindly lesbians would have been much nicer.
What I was actually wanting to do is ask you how things are going and wish you well.

Troy said...

Thank you Richie, things are going pretty well. I had a Tysabri infusion on Friday and my MS seems to be at least manageable at this point. That probably explains why I haven't posted anything recently.

It is certainly true that there is no shortage of dysfunctional couples both that are heterosexual or that are homosexual. Marriage is a good institution designed to give the best to children. In many cases it doesn't deliver but I still don't think extending marriage to a still more dysfunctional group with absolutely no track record of success is a way to fix it.

I don't wish to say that same sex parents can't be loving because that is patently false but children need role models from both sexes in my opinion and clearly that can not be achieved with same sex couples (as you pointed out, it is often not even achieved with opposite sex couples.)